i've always felt like i do resemble Rogue, even if im a boy… i've always been touched by her history 😀

It is very clear to me that GaGa IS in fact INFJ. I'm also a singer/songwriter and I have the ability to shift into extroverted entertainer mode and put all my passion into my music. If you've seen her in interviews she can be very reserved, quiet, and polite, almost unsure of herself. You all know that we have dual personalities, and I don't question her being INFJ at all.

Personally, I feel so proud of you! I think that it took great courage and a high level of honesty for you to come out knowing that the community surrounding you, sadly, is not one to react appropriately – at least kindly! – with who you were born as. Nevertheless, you should not associate yourself much with people who found it easy to erase the loving person you've been to them. Also, you should make a clear plan aided by a job that will offer you money to leave that hostile town. Until then, keep your chin up and avoid unnecessary conflict that will only hurt you, because they won't feel a thing.
You're apart of a community greater than those you know now, one that loves you and seeks to better the world.
Praying for you 8)

You don't have the same personality as Hitler, you have the same personality type. I highly doubt you will make the same life choices as him unless you strive for it (but let's hope not.).

That was an awesome post.  You are a very cool person.

Now, my question is, why are Martin Luther King and Oprah Winfrey included as an ENFJs and INFJs? How can a person be both?

.Introvert person is more private and silent .INFJs are conscientious and value-driven. They seek meaning in relationships, ideas, and events, with an eye toward better understanding themselves and others. Using their intuitive skills, they develop a clear and confident vision, which they then set out to execute, aiming to better the lives of others. Like their INTJ counterparts, INFJs regard problems as opportunities to design and implement creative solutions.
INFJs are quiet, private individuals who prefer to exercise their influence behind the scenes. Although very independent, INFJs are intensely interested in the well-being of others. INFJs prefer one-on-one relationships to large groups. Sensitive and complex, they are adept at understanding complicated issues and driven to resolve differences in a cooperative and creative manner.
INFJs have a rich, vivid inner life, which they may be reluctant to share with those around them. Nevertheless, they are congenial in their interactions, and perceptive of the emotions of others. Generally well-liked by their peers, they may often be considered close friends and confidants by most other types. However, they are guarded in expressing their own feelings, especially to new people, and so tend to establish close relationships slowly. INFJs tend to be easily hurt, though they may not reveal this except to their closest companions. INFJs may “silently withdraw as a way of setting limits”, rather than expressing their wounded feelings—a behavior that may leave others confused and upset.INFJs tend to be sensitive, quiet leaders with a great depth of personality. They are intricately and deeply woven, mysterious, and highly complex, sometimes puzzling even to themselves. They have an orderly view toward the world, but are internally arranged in a complex way that only they can understand. Abstract in communicating, they live in a world of hidden meanings and possibilities. With a natural affinity for art, INFJs tend to be creative and easily inspired.Yet they may also do well in the sciences, aided by their intuition

Unfortunaly ,I 'm INFJ …….

Thats a truly inspiring list of people and now I get it why I admired all these people at some time or the other, cause I could find that connection in terms of character and beliefs. WOW!

But then again INFJ's often feel very confident in their surroundings if they feel they have the upper hand in the situation.

Indeed you are very right. Currently I am partner with a ISTJ whom is much more detailed and orientated then me.We are planning to start a business soon. But I wonder I could be quite outgoing type yet prefer privacy.

I'm 37 and, like you, found myself in a very difficult situation while living with my dad as a young man. I too couldn't do much about it at that time and I felt stuck. My 'stuck' turned into anger, then depression and then alot of thinking about how to get out of the situation. Suicide seemed to rule my thoughts. I'm not a sick person. I'm not a negative person. I was in a situation that I wanted out of and couldn't figure out how to do that. Worse than being stuck I was still under the 'control' of my parents. This was one of the darkest times of my life.

It WILL get better. You won't stay in this place for ever. Soon you will be old enough to start carving out your own life…seperate and independent from your parents.

You are NOT a sinner. You are not a bad person. I am happily married to a women that I've loved for 18 years. We have a son who lights up my life. Your being gay is not offensive to me. There are a lot of people who feel that way. But right now your surrounded by people who are not of like-mind and your having to fight that battle constantly.

Patience will go a long way right now.

Stay true to yourself. Recognize your in a battle that will end. You WILL look back at this time and be a stronger person for having survived it.

Get busy training. Training for the day when you can leave home. Educate yourself for that day.

I'm sorry your going through this, yet it may be exactly what you need to be ready for your next chapter. (The world still does not treat homosexuals very well)

First off, congratulations on sharing such personal information with the public. It takes a courageous soul to do so — so nice work!

I'm certainly not qualified to give you professional counseling. Based on your challenges, I would recommend you seek out a professional Counselor (if you haven't already done so, try searching Google for “Family Counseling [name of your town/city]”

And then I recommend that you start hanging around more with like-minded people. For that, you might consider going to http://www.MeetUp.com and search through [“your city/town”], “North Carolina,” “Gay” and “Family Counseling” — There are a number of “MeetUp” groups that will likely be of help.

I received this advice from someone who had been in the rabbit hole I was once in: “you're not alone and you WILL one day feel better!” And I did!

Great question, Robyn. No hard and fast rules here and I believe you could

be terrific at whatever you invest yourself in.

And INFJs certainly have great qualites for entrepreneurship (including

their NF ability to connect with people) and their Judgership that pushes

them to get things done!

An INFJ's challenges with entrepreneurship (especially early-stage (i.e.

you're all alone!)) do lie in the details (Sensor), as you mentioned.

Additionally, an INFJ's Feeler quality could make some early-stage business

challenges all the more frustrating (such as asking an investor for money or

forecasting).

That's why I recommend that any NFs who want to be business leaders surround

themselves with Sensing Judgers (SJs) for balance (an SJ financial advisor

would help in the above examples).

An internet marketer is usually part of a larger team (ideally surrounded by

detail-oriented, logical people) and thus has more wiggle room on these

items.

Hope that helps!

Also, we can't assume she doesn't need recoup time. She may have many ways of retreating. Keep in mind, we probably see the majority of her extroversion–she doesn't need to be extroverted all the time.

I'm a recruiter. There's no better feeling than helping people put food on their table for their families.

😀

Why would Lady Gaga be an INFJ? I am pretty sure she's an extrovert person. Me, as an INFJ, I really know what it means to have an introvert personality and I am 1000% sure she is not introvert, she wouldn't be able to behave like she does with the same type of personality as I have.

Attempting to hide truth because you find it distasteful, is, well, what Carl Jung would likely call “insane” if we were to translate into English. While you are at it, why don't you blot out the fact that you are responsible for living in the only conuntry in the world who has ever used nuclear weapons on human beings (babies, children, teens, adults, the elderly and infirm) … yeah, that would be distasteful – wait, no it wouldn't it would be true! Being an INFJ, tuth and justice is important, so rightfully including INFJ's even those who were mentally ill monsters IS “tasteful” because the truth is never in bad taste although it certainly may leave a bad taste in the mouths of those with their heads buried in the sand.

Hello.
I was wondering why 'promoter' is considered a career to avoid for INFJs?

Why is Real Estate Broker a bad career choice for an INFJ?

Thanks, Shayla — you caught at least one error on my part! “Internet Marketer” is supposed to be listed as a “Good Career” for INFJs. I have made the correction.

As for why I listed Entrepreneur as a “Career to Avoid” for INFJs, my experience is that Entrepreneurship requires paying close attention to detail (Sensing) and logic (Thinking) — if you want to be an entrepreneur, I do believe you can enjoy it if you were to surround yourself with a partner/co-founder (or other senior-level employee) who is detail oriented and logical.

An ISTJ, for example, would compliment you well if you can find one you work well with.

I'm not sure if putting Hitler on the list was very tasteful. Surely the list is about seeing the list is about recognising different 'qualities' of the infj in the different people. Are we supposed to be recognising INFJ qualities in Hitler?

The fourth on the list, Amelia Poulain… I assume it is a typo of “Amelie Poulain”? I am very curious about this because INFJ is my personality type and Amelie is my favorite movie.