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Enneagram 2 Nickname: “The Helper” or “The Giver” (also called “The Lover”, “The Caretaker”, “The Pleaser” and “The Enabler”)
Type 2s feel best when they are being helpful to others. They are typically generous and go out of their way for people. Not only does helping others make them feel more worthwhile, but also helps create and strengthen their priority in life: having close relationships. Type 2s think the most important thing in life is love and get value from being loved and needed. Type 2s have an affinity for giving compliments and support. There is a nurturing, almost parental quality to this type, but unhealthy 2s tend to get overly involved in people’s lives. They can be possessive of people and manipulative if they don’t get their needs for love, attention and closeness met. They believe they have to put others first to be worthy of love. Type 2s take great pride in their relationships and ability to take care of others.
Enneagram 2 Strengths
Enneagram 2 Challenges or Weaknesses
Basic fear: Of being unloved and unwanted Basic desire: To feel loved
Type 2 with a 1 wing is called “The Servant” Type 2 with a 3 wing is called “The Host/Hostess”
When 2s evolve they take on characteristics of type 4 When 2s are under stress they take on characteristics of type 8
Vice: Pride
Unconscious childhood message: It is not ok to have needs. Lost childhood message: You are wanted.
Enneagram 2 Careers: (Because of their helping nature 2s love working for non profits or volunteers)
Famous & Fictional Enneagram 2s
Princess Diana of Wales demonstrated theType 2 desire to give by dedicating her life and free time to tough humanitarian work and visiting sick children in the hospital. She was also an INFP, known as “the healer”.
Alan Alda Anita Bryant Ann Landers Anne Jackson Archibishop Desmond Tutu Barbara Bush Barry Manilow Betty Friedan Bill Cosby Brigitte Bardot Catherine Hicks Celine Dion, Christina Onassis Courtney Cox Danielle Steel Danny Glover Danny Thomas Debbie Reynolds Desmond Tutu Diana-Princess of Wales Dolly Parton Doug Henning Eleanor Roosevelt Elizabeth Taylor Ellen Burstyn Elvis Presley Emma Thompson Eva Peron Farrah Fawcett Faye Dunaway Florence Nightengale Glenn Close Ivana Trump Jane Birkin Jean Brodie Jennifer Tilly Jerry Lewis Jessica Lange Jesus Christ John Denver Kathy Bates Kim Cattrall Laura Huxley Lesley Ann Warren Lewis Carroll Lillian Carter Liv Ullmann Luciano Pavarotti Lynne Cheney Madonna Mary Magdalene Melanie Griffith Melanie Hamilton Wilkes Mia Farrow Monica Lewinsky Mother Teresa Nancy Reagan Naomi Cambell Pat Boone Patsy Ramsay Petula Clark Priscilla Presley Richard Simmons Richard Thomas Sally Jessy Raphael Sammy Davis, Jr. Tommy Tune Whitney Houston Yoko Ono
Enneagram Two with a One-Wing: “Servant”
Enneagram Two with a Three-Wing: “The Host/Hostess”
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