Enneagram Type 2

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Enneagram 2 Nickname: “The Helper” or “The Giver” (also called “The Lover”, “The Caretaker”, “The Pleaser” and “The Enabler”)

Type 2s feel best when they are being helpful to others. They are typically generous and go out of their way for people. Not only does helping others make them feel more worthwhile, but also helps create and strengthen their priority in life: having close relationships. Type 2s think the most important thing in life is love and get value from being loved and needed. Type 2s have an affinity for giving compliments and support. There is a nurturing, almost parental quality to this type, but unhealthy 2s tend to get overly involved in people’s lives. They can be possessive of people and manipulative if they don’t get their needs for love, attention and closeness met. They believe they have to put others first to be worthy of love. Type 2s take great pride in their relationships and ability to take care of others.

Enneagram 2 Strengths

  • People pleasing
  • Extremely giving
  • Empathetic
  • Loving
  • Demonstrative
  • Nurturing
  • Supportive
  • Caring
  • Fun
  • Generous
  • Friendly
  • Thoughtful

Enneagram 2 Challenges or Weaknesses

  • Resentful
  • Self important
  • Possessive
  • Needy
  • Prideful
  • Intrusive
  • Overbearing
  • Possessive
  • Fear of not being loved
  • Manipulative/coercive

Basic fear: Of being unloved and unwanted
Basic desire: To feel loved

Type 2 with a 1 wing is called “The Servant”
Type 2 with a 3 wing is called “The Host/Hostess”

When 2s evolve they take on characteristics of type 4
When 2s are under stress they take on characteristics of type 8

Vice: Pride

Unconscious childhood message: It is not ok to have needs.
Lost childhood message: You are wanted.

Enneagram 2 Careers: (Because of their helping nature 2s love working for non profits or volunteers)

  • Chief of Staff (i.e. “A #2 Person)
  • Teacher (usually grade school)
  • Executive Assistant
  • Paramedic/fire fighter
  • Retail sales person
  • waiter, waitress, bartender
  • Caterer
  • Museum guide
  • Author of children’s books
  • Nurses
  • Nannies
  • Dental assistants
  • School principal
  • Stay at home parent
  • Wedding planner
  • Social Worker

Famous & Fictional Enneagram 2s

Princess Diana of Wales demonstrated  theType 2 desire to give by dedicating her life and free time to tough humanitarian work and visiting sick children in the hospital. She was also an INFP, known as “the healer”.

Alan Alda
Anita Bryant
Ann Landers
Anne Jackson
Archibishop Desmond Tutu
Barbara Bush
Barry Manilow
Betty Friedan
Bill Cosby
Brigitte Bardot
Catherine Hicks
Celine Dion,
Christina Onassis
Courtney Cox
Danielle Steel
Danny Glover
Danny Thomas
Debbie Reynolds
Desmond Tutu
Diana-Princess of Wales
Dolly Parton
Doug Henning
Eleanor Roosevelt
Elizabeth Taylor
Ellen Burstyn
Elvis Presley
Emma Thompson
Eva Peron
Farrah Fawcett
Faye Dunaway
Florence Nightengale
Glenn Close
Ivana Trump
Jane Birkin
Jean Brodie
Jennifer Tilly
Jerry Lewis
Jessica Lange
Jesus Christ
John Denver
Kathy Bates
Kim Cattrall
Laura Huxley
Lesley Ann Warren
Lewis Carroll
Lillian Carter
Liv Ullmann
Luciano Pavarotti
Lynne Cheney
Madonna
Mary Magdalene
Melanie Griffith
Melanie Hamilton Wilkes
Mia Farrow
Monica Lewinsky
Mother Teresa
Nancy Reagan
Naomi Cambell
Pat Boone
Patsy Ramsay
Petula Clark
Priscilla Presley
Richard Simmons
Richard Thomas
Sally Jessy Raphael
Sammy Davis, Jr.
Tommy Tune
Whitney Houston
Yoko Ono

Enneagram Two with a One-Wing: “Servant”

Enneagram Two with a Three-Wing: “The Host/Hostess”

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